Lost Language of Cranes – David Leavitt

“Lost Language of Cranes” is a novel by David Leavitt that was first published in 1986. This book revolves around a family living in New York where the father, Philip Benjamin, reveals to his wife that he is gay. This revelation not only causes a strain on their marriage but also on their relationship with their son, who is struggling with his own sexuality.As the story unfolds, we see how the characters come to terms with their own sexual identities and how they navigate the challenges of being a part of a society that doesn’t accept their lifestyle. The title of the book comes from the fact that cranes mate for life and that their mating calls are unique to each pair. This symbolizes the love and commitment that the characters in the novel strive to achieve.The novel also examines the generational gap between the father and son, as they both have different perspectives on what it means to be gay. Philip’s experience growing up during a time when homosexuality was stigmatized is vastly different from his son’s experience of growing up in a more progressive society.“Lost Language of Cranes” is a beautifully written book that explores themes of love, identity, and acceptance. It’s a poignant reminder that no matter who we love, we all deserve to be accepted and loved for who we are.